Cartoon bandaids and a lost boyhood
It’s silly. I know it’s silly and still I do it. I’m in Target, getting some stuff that I need. …
Transgender youth at overnight camps and retreats
When I do trainings about transgender youth in particular (but sometimes LGBQ youth in general) one of the main questions …
10 Years On T: Happy Re-Birthday To Me
10 years ago today, with nervousness bubbling through my stomach, I got my very first shot of testosterone and embarked …
A Letter To Transgender People About Dating
This one is specifically for trans folks, but cis folks can listen in if they want (and they should). My …
Cisgender Partners Of Transgender People (A Story)
We were at a summer festival, a Pride fest, setting up a table for her work. I was there to …
Pronouns Are Just So Haaaaaaaaaard
One of the easiest ways that you can show respect for a transgender person is to get their pronouns right. …
What It Means To Be Transgender
photo credit Hillary Olson Photography What it means to be transgender means different things to different people. It affects our …
To Tell Or Not To Tell
How and if and at what point to disclose whether or not you are transgender during the dating process has …
What I’ve Learned By Being Transgender
photo credit: Hillary Olson In light of everything in the news about transgender people I’ve been reflecting on my …
Tired of Transgender Narratives
waves Uh, hi! Sorry I disappeared for a bit there. I was trucking along, writing regularly, and then all of …