A couple weeks ago Brian and I did three speaking gigs at various places in Minnesota. We spoke at a … Continue ReadingDefiant Joy

When I was a kid I spent a lot of time alone. I was an only child and grew up … Continue ReadingBoredom Is Good

Minnesota is the land of Passive Aggressiveness. It’s like it’s in the water or something and infects everyone (but especially … Continue ReadingPassive Agressiveness Sucks

On Friday night we opened our production of “The Laramie Project”. It was an emotional day as the opening coincided … Continue ReadingThe Story of the Robbery

I want to believe in the goodness of people. I want to believe in groups working together for justice and … Continue ReadingIs Change Possible

There was a lot that was off limits for conversation growing up. The past. Sex. Sexuality. Gender. Bodily functions. It … Continue ReadingSay The Unspeakable

Sometimes people will contact Queer Theology looking for resources. They want to find an affirming church near them, or a … Continue ReadingHow Much Do You Want It

When I eat out by myself I often sit at the bar so I can just take my time and … Continue ReadingLearning To Take Up Space

Over the last couple of months I’ve been working with a lot of children and teens. I mean, that’s what … Continue ReadingWiggly Bodies and Developing Minds

I failed my driver’s test six times. I am not exaggerating. The first three were for parallel parking. Once I … Continue ReadingFailure